Nina Hartley’s Guide to Threesomes: Two Girls & a Guy

The Hype

From back cover: Threesomes are the most common group sex fantasy! Explore the art of seduction with Nina Hartley and stars like Nicole Sheridan and her husband Voodoo, the hottest three-way specialists in the business. Plus, in a fantasy sequence, Mika Tan, Shy Love and Alec Knight demonstrate that the key to the best possible three-way is everyone getting involved! They’ll show you how it’s done. Set your sites on having a relaxed, sensual GREAT time with this excellent guide. Neither you nor your partners will be disappointed!

What You’re In For

You’ll experience male/female intercourse, lesbian sex, sex toys, vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex. DVD starts out with Nina Hartley and Nicole Sheridan sitting together answering questions and sharing information about Threesomes, then Nicole, Nina and Voodoo get their threesome on! Mika Tan, Shy Love and Alec Knight share a threeway encounter and Nina and Nicole end the DVD with some parting advice and thoughts. Notable extras include a Behind the Scenes reel and an interview with Nina.

To get more specific: During the Q& A in the beginning, Nicole and Nina playfully answer realistic questions and talk about important topics like:

• Husband is hinting to wife that he wants another woman in the bedroom, she wants to make him happy, but is not sure what’s in it for her.
• A woman is intrigued by having sex with her husband and another woman, but she’s really not interested in the other woman herself, she just wants to see his dick in another pussy.
• Nina and Nicole briefly discuss the benefits of pulling back and watching the action of the other 2 people for a moment or two.
• Man wants to have threesome with wife and another woman, but he’s having trouble talking her into it.
• They give alternative suggestions for couples who aren’t ready to take the threesome plunge.
• How should a couple, with both parties interested, go about having a 3-some?

What I Liked

You’re getting information from a master, not only in the porn business, but from someone that, at one time, lived in a 3-way relationship, talk about balancing playmates and partners! It’s clear that Nina understands the important dynamics of a successful threeway and it’s not just about finding the hot position(s). She shares real and practical information from when the DVD starts with the Q&A in the beginning, she demonstrates those tips during her scene and reveals her experiences and deep thoughts in her interview. The informational gems are flowing throughout this DVD!

There’s a moment in the Nina, Nicole and Voodoo scene where Nicole and Nina give examples of how to have the threesome if they weren’t bisexual. It allows us to see how everyone can still manage to play together yet remain within their boundaries. For obvious reasons, it’s hotter to have lesbians in an adult DVD, but in real life, sometimes the ladies don’t want to play together. I commend Nina for including that easy to leave out detail.

While Mika, Shy and Alec’s scene moves along quite smoothly, with no real fumbling and without a lot of communication, the box cover says it’s a fantasy sequence. In that case, I don’t expect it to be realistic and it’s actually a pretty hot scene that gives good examples of sex positions for 2 ladies and guy and how to incorporate toys into sex with 3 as well.

While fun, the Behind the Scenes footage has some helpful information too, so don’t skip it!

Favorite, Most Educational Scene

Nina’s scene is my favorite and the hottest for several reasons. Nina’s scene with the couple, Nicole & Voodoo, is her first time with them. So even though they’re porn stars, we still see what an established couple can be like when with a new female playmate for the 1st time.

They all show a very realistically, open, expressive and playful threesome. There’s lots of flirting, naughty talk and even a healthy dose of laughing. They show that this doesn’t have to be a serious encounter. It can be lots of fun. They demonstrate how you can all talk to each other during 3-way sex and find out if what you’re doing to another is working.

Nina is awesome at expressing herself in this situation. She tells everyone what she’s thinking, she expresses how she feels about the stimulation she’s receiving or what she’s viewing. She’s very complimentary to Nicole and Voodoo. Nicole and Voodoo are great at expressing their thoughts as well while showing how to be very inclusive with their new playmate. I love this because it’s not porn star dirty talk that an average couple interested in 3-somes would be fearful of saying. They show how to be flirty and playful with your words and it turns out that this kind of honesty and expression is really hot.

Even though it was instructional, the scene got me very aroused and made my panties moist I think because this scene is the most realistic to me and it’s much closer to my 3-some style of sex.

Most Valuable Bit

The interview with Nina is extremely valuable. It’s a very open, honest and intimate discussion about Nina’s real life experiences. She shares the story of her 1st threesome and how it was a disaster and, most importantly, what she learned from it. She tells you what important qualities to look for in a female playmate, important qualities in a male partner for successful threesomes. She explains how she gets the ball rolling. She answers more questions about threeways and misconceptions, how 3-somes can affect relationships and shares her story about her 3-way relationship. I think one of the most important topics covered is what she looks for in a couple to play with. Nina is the ultimate “unicorn” and this will give a couple insight into what that elusive single woman is looking for. It’s very enlightening and provides a couple with more detailed information to discuss and explore their feelings with.

Disappointing Bits

While Nina’s scene with Nicole and Voodoo was the most realistic I’ve seen in an adult instructional, porn type DVD, they go furthrer than just intercourse and have anal sex. They do show how to have it safely, however, I think the audience that this DVD is intended for, won’t feel real comfortable going into anal territory. Although to each his own. I just thought that part was a bit over the top.

They don’t discuss how a soft swap encounter could be exciting, meaning the male of the couple doesn’t always have to have intercourse with the female playmate. That’s something that my husband and I do and the encounter is still totally hot and fun for everyone. I think that’s something that’s important to maybe, not necessarily show, but at least discuss. A couple doesn’t have to go from zero to sixty in the beginning of their threesome journey.

Most Notable Quote

Nina on the best way to enjoy threesomes:
” Don’t be goal oriented, be pleasure oriented.”

Overall Thoughts on Nina Hartley’s Guide to Threesomes: Two Girls and a Guy

If you’re a couple interested in adding a female playmate to your sex life, this is a great DVD! Nina provides realistic, practical information to help a couple have a successful threesome by pulling from her real life experiences. Not only does she share her tips and iteas with you, she backs up that information by showing us in her threesome with real life couple, Nicole and Voodoo. Yes, they’re all in the porn biz, but it’s their first time playing together and you can see how these 3 people all connect in this way for the fist time. Nina stresses communication during her opening Q&A and she demonstrates how open, honest and playful communication can help a 3-some to be successful, sexy and fun. Their open, playful communication keeps things moving along and keeps everyone involved. Nina even takes the time to demonstrate how two women that are not bisexual can still participate in this fantasy.

Questions similar to what I’ve been asked by real people over at AllSexAdvice.com are answered by Nina and Nicole and the answers aren’t generalized. They get specific, sharing, teaching and they have fun doing it. But most importantly, they’re good role models in their scene. While Nina’s scene has more of a realistic feel to it than Mika, Shy and Alec’s scene, both scenes are hot and both provide viewers with plenty of ideas for positions and how to keep everyone playing together.

The interview with Nina is very revealing, while providing us with lots of information to discuss with our partners. It’s the detailed information within that gets me excited about this DVD. This DVD is not meant to be just a porno, it’s meant to teach and it’s not claiming to be an “Expert” guide. The funny thing is, it provides the kind of specific information that the “Expert” guide doesn’t.

Do I recommend this DVD to couples? Yes, absolutely! Is it the “be all end all’ of information a couple should seek? Nope, but it’s definitely chock full of information! To be honest, I recommend Nina Hartley’s “Guide to Swinging” first. After you watch that, then watch this one. I feel this DVD is one step, one level above the Guide to Swinging. As always, Nina has done a great job. Now if I can only seduce her into playing with my husband and I…

Vital Stats:

Starring: Nina Hartley, Nicole Sheridan, Voodoo, Mika Tan, Shy Love, Alec Knight
Studio: Adam & Eve Pictures
Director: Nina Hartley & Ernest Greene
Running Time: approx. 83 minutes

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